It's a Wonderful Life

I had never watched “It’s a Wonderful Life” until about 10 years ago. It’s a classic movie, yet I never felt the urge to sit down and learn from the lessons of George Bailey.

But 10 years ago, I took a leap and went to work for myself creating the Live Yes, And business. I had no earthly idea of how things were going to work out or how we would make ends meet. This is when I finally sat down and let George and his guardian angel Clarence, teach me about my life.

Like George in the film, I didn’t really know what real value I was bringing to others. My wife and I were providing for our children, but it felt like a struggle. And although I was working hard to turn a dream into a career, I really didn’t see a confident path forward. I never pondered ending my life, but I sure didn’t feel like I was thriving professionally or as a father.

Watching that movie for the first time hit a nerve. I could connect with that joy, relief, and newfound fervor-to-be-alive George felt at the end of the movie. It perfectly illustrated that life wasn’t about external success, but rather the impact we have on people in our lives and communities by simply being thoughtful and kind. George’s family loved him. And countless people in the community were blessed by his decades of generosity and compassion.

That was enough.

For the last 10 years my wife and have made a point to watch that film every Christmas. It was extra special about 6 years ago when our son Holland appeared in a stage version of the story in our local theater. It has become one of our family’s favorite movies.

This past year has been the best of my career, and I am eternally grateful for all of the abundance. This year has been very hard as well. My father passed away, different friends experienced unthinkable tragedies, and I have been devastated by so much of what is happening in our country. The good and the bad. Both things can be true. And...

“I love my life.”

Through the good and the bad, I often surprise myself by thinking the phrase, “I love my life.”

I do. I really do. And the thing is, I have always loved my life. Through all of the hard times, uncertainty, adversity, and “WTF” moments…I still thought to myself, “I love my life.”

I am grateful for the highs and grateful for the lows. Each makes the other all the more meaningful. There is beauty in both.

As 2025 comes to a close, I hope we all find some downtime to reflect on the past year. I hope instead of looking at the score, bank account, or accomplishments, you reflect on the people you have connected with, impacted, and created deeper relationships with. I know I will.

So, I wish you “Happy Holidays” and that you find immense happiness, even if it feels far-fetched. Because you deserve a wonderful life. If you want the moon, I hope you lasso yourself the moon (watch the movie for the reference!). And even though there can seem to be more greedy Mr. Potters in the world, join me in being and celebrating the George Baileys.

It is a wonderful life…and my wish for you in 2026 is to love it!

—Travis